The gynecologist will explain everything that's going on in your body, do some exams and give you contraceptive advice. It's scary to go for the first time for most girls.
We've discovered that Wambie girls worry about 4 main things when going to the gynecologist for the first time:
Talking to your mother:
If you are worried that your mother will think you are having sex with your boyfriend, just explain to her that it because you are having an irregular cycle.
The doctor is a man:
You have to remember that a doctor is a doctor and he sees the vagina as any other part of the body. If you don't feel comfortable then ask your mother to find a female doctor.
The exam hurts:
If you are a virgin the doctor will just take a quick look, examine your breasts and ask you a couple questions. If you are very nervous then tell him you just want to talk. The doctor will understand.
He'll tell my mother everything:
No he won't. Professionally he can't do that as he is loyal to you. Think of him as your ally. He can talk with you about subjects that you can't talk about with your mother. If you think about it, it's not such a bad idea to go to the gynecologist, right?
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